Tag: misunderstanding

My friend doesn’t understand depression

Published: November 10, 2016 | By | 4 Replies Continue Reading

What do you do when your best friend doesn’t understand depression and doesn’t believe you?

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A friendship question from a reader hints at something else

Published: July 26, 2015 | By | 7 Replies Continue Reading

Sometimes little friendship problems need to be seen as hints of something bigger.

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Not speaking: Should I wish her a happy birthday?

Published: June 15, 2015 | By | 11 Replies Continue Reading

After two friends have a disagreement, one wonders if she should still send the other birthday greetings.

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Guest Post: What can happen when you deactivate a Facebook account

Published: February 27, 2014 | Last Updated: February 27, 2014 By | 28 Replies Continue Reading
Guest Post: What can happen when you deactivate a Facebook account

This is a cautionary tale about what can happen to some of our friendships when we deactivate a Facebook account — and why it’s important to avoid jumping to conclusions.

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The downside of getting involved in a friend’s marital problems

Published: May 11, 2012 | Last Updated: June 30, 2013 By | 3 Replies Continue Reading

It can be tricky for an outsider to get involved in a friend’s marital problems.

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Gaming Friendships

Published: February 26, 2012 | Last Updated: January 6, 2016 By | 4 Replies Continue Reading

Have you ever made friends with someone by playing a game like Bunco, Mah-Jongg, Bridge, or even an online game?   Games are another great way to meet people and form friendships because you already have a shared interest and you have recurring contact with the other individual (s).   But as in friendships that […]

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Is This Friendship Worth “The Talk”?

Published: May 16, 2011 | Last Updated: October 26, 2021 By | 13 Replies Continue Reading
Is This Friendship Worth “The Talk”?

Sometimes there’s no point in having “the talk” if a friendship is consistently disappointing and unrewarding.

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Scheduling problems: A simple misunderstanding or more?

Published: September 13, 2010 | Last Updated: September 13, 2010 By | Reply Continue Reading

QUESTION Dear Irene, I’ve been hanging around with "Dina" for 15 years. A month ago, Dina told me she had run into an old friend of ours who wanted to get together with our old gang. She said she would arrange it and I told her I would help by contacting a few people within […]

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Why Don’t Friends Just Talk About It?

Published: April 8, 2010 | Last Updated: October 26, 2021 By | 33 Replies Continue Reading

A woman asks why friends don’t just talk about it when problems surface in a relationship. Many times, they just ditch the friendship.

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How can a misunderstanding kill a longtime friendship?

Published: October 10, 2009 | Last Updated: October 10, 2009 By | 2 Replies Continue Reading

QUESTION Dear Irene, Five years ago, my girlfriend stopped communicating with me. I found out later on from my sister that my friend’s husband was diagnosed with stomach cancer and I wasn’t there for her. The only reason I wasn’t there was I did not know. Her daughter told me that I had been e-mailed […]

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