Tag: communication

Is All Fair In Friendship And Employment?

Published: August 26, 2026 | By | 2 Replies Continue Reading
Is All Fair In Friendship And Employment?

Summary: In this post, Steve feels betrayed after a long-time friend he started dating applied for a job he interviewed for. Irene validates his hurt, explaining that competing without open communication or consideration damages trust. She cautions that failing to address this issue signals potential trouble for their romantic future.

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Is This Friendship Worth “The Talk”?

Published: June 10, 2026 | Last Updated: June 10, 2026 By | 13 Replies Continue Reading
Is This Friendship Worth “The Talk”?

Sometimes there’s no point in having “the talk” if a friendship is consistently disappointing and unrewarding.

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My Friend Is Acting Distant And Is Giving Me The Cold Shoulder

Published: July 15, 2025 | By | 32 Replies Continue Reading
My Friend Is Acting Distant And Is Giving Me The Cold Shoulder

If a friend is acting distant, giving you the cold shoulder and you care about the friendship, it makes sense to find out what’s going on.

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My Friend Suddenly Shut Me Out Of Her Life

Published: June 18, 2025 | Last Updated: June 22, 2025 By | 453 Replies Continue Reading
My Friend Suddenly Shut Me Out Of Her Life

I have a friend that I felt was my best friend. She was in my wedding and we were pretty much attached at the hip. She called me a couple times a day, texted me, hung out with me or talked to me online (Facebook, AIM) almost every day.

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Why Am I Attracted to Toxic Friends?

Published: February 28, 2025 | By | 14 Replies Continue Reading
Why Am I Attracted to Toxic Friends?

A reader wonders why she gets into relationships with toxic friends.

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My Disappointing Maid of Honor

Published: February 22, 2025 | Last Updated: April 1, 2025 By | 18 Replies Continue Reading
My Disappointing Maid of Honor

A reader asks what to do. She thinks her disappointing maid of honor doesn’t seem to share her excitement about the wedding?

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5 Not-So-Simple Rules for Mending A Broken Friendship

Published: September 3, 2022 | Last Updated: September 3, 2022 By | 92 Replies Continue Reading
5 Not-So-Simple Rules for Mending A Broken Friendship

Despite the romanticized myth of BFF, the hard truth is that most friendships don’t last forever. In fact, research suggests that when it comes to friendships, there’s a phenomenon somewhat akin to the seven-year itch; half of our friendships change over that time period. Mending a broken friendship isn’t always easy but if the friendship is valuable to you, it’s worth an earnest try

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Slowly Being Excluded From An Adult Clique: What Could Have Happened?

Published: July 26, 2021 | Last Updated: February 11, 2023 By | 311 Replies Continue Reading
Slowly Being Excluded From An Adult Clique: What Could Have Happened?

I am looking for some advice on adult female friendship cliques. If the group matters, it’s best to find out why.

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Pandemic-Related Losses: How To Show A Friend You Care 

Published: November 8, 2020 | Last Updated: November 8, 2020 By | 1 Reply Continue Reading
Pandemic-Related Losses: How To Show A Friend You Care 

A reader wonders how to respond to friends experiencing pandemic-related losses. QUESTION I have several friends right now who are going through VERY trying situations. In a few instances, I’ve sent people emails expressing my commiseration but I’m wondering what, if anything, to do next when I don’t hear back from them. Do you think […]

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We planned a trip together and my friend seems to be backing out

Published: April 13, 2017 | By | 12 Replies Continue Reading

Two friends planning a trip together have a communication breakdown.

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