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Author Irene S. Levine, PhD, is The Friendship Doctor, dispensing expert advice on The Friendship Blog.

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Unable To Make Friends: I Feel Like A Failure

Published: August 24, 2025 | Last Updated: August 24, 2025 By | 318 Replies Continue Reading
Unable To Make Friends: I Feel Like A Failure

A 61-year-old woman has no friends and feels like a total failure. She feels stuck in bed and stuck in her situation.

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What Should The Borrowing Policy Be Between Friends?

Published: August 14, 2025 | Last Updated: August 14, 2025 By | Reply Continue Reading
What Should The Borrowing Policy Be Between Friends?

A reader asks about the etiquette of “borrowing policy” between friends. A friend who asked to borrow something from her got upset when her request was turned down. 

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Remaining On Friendly Terms When Neighbors Ask To Borrow Your Stuff

Published: August 14, 2025 | Last Updated: August 14, 2025 By | 53 Replies Continue Reading
Remaining On Friendly Terms When Neighbors Ask To Borrow Your Stuff

A single woman feels used when her neighbors ask to borrow her expensive snowblower each winter and doesn’t know what to say.

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Friend Poaching: How Do I Handle Feeling Left Out?

Published: July 26, 2025 | By | Reply Continue Reading
Friend Poaching: How Do I Handle Feeling Left Out?

Friend poaching occurs when someone introduces two friends and they form a relationship that excludes you. Ouch!

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Setting Boundaries With Neighbors

Published: July 23, 2025 | By | 1 Reply Continue Reading
Setting Boundaries With Neighbors

A woman asks about setting boundaries with neighbors who are impinging on her personal time and space.

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My Friend Is Acting Distant And Is Giving Me The Cold Shoulder

Published: July 15, 2025 | By | 32 Replies Continue Reading
My Friend Is Acting Distant And Is Giving Me The Cold Shoulder

If a friend is acting distant, giving you the cold shoulder and you care about the friendship, it makes sense to find out what’s going on.

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Getting Over A Friendship With A Next-Door Neighbor

Published: July 12, 2025 | By | 27 Replies Continue Reading
Getting Over A Friendship With A Next-Door Neighbor

A woman asks what to do after a friendship with a next-door neighbor goes sour and she has to come face-to-face with her all the time.

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Friendship and The Only Child: Dispelling The Myths

Published: July 3, 2025 | Last Updated: July 3, 2025 By | Reply Continue Reading
Friendship and The Only Child: Dispelling The Myths

Dr. Newman’s groundbreaking new book, Just One: The New Science, Secrets & Joy of Parenting an Only Child, provides information and advice for parents.

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Is There Anything Wrong With Dating My Friend’s Ex?

Published: June 29, 2025 | By | 63 Replies Continue Reading
Is There Anything Wrong With Dating My Friend’s Ex?

Dating a friend’s ex is always tricky and is probably best to avoid.

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Abandoned By Friends After Death Of A Partner 

Published: June 28, 2025 | By | 3 Replies Continue Reading
Abandoned By Friends After Death Of A Partner 

After the death of a partner, a man says his friends have scattered to the wind. He wonders how to respond.

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