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Making friends when you are shy

April 9, 2013 | By | 2 Replies Continue Reading

Feeling shy can make it difficult to meet new people and make friends. Shyness may simply indicate a quiet sensibility, may stem from feeling awkward and not knowing what to do, or perhaps reflect lack of a good self-image.

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Social Anxiety and Friendship: A First-Person Account

November 20, 2012 | By | 6 Replies Continue Reading
Social Anxiety and Friendship: A First-Person Account

Social Anxiety can make it difficult to make and sustain friendships. I’m very appreciative to one of the readers of this blog, Jane, for her courage in sharing this post in the hope it would be useful to others.

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Shy all my life: Will it just go away?

June 28, 2012 | By | 9 Replies Continue Reading

My whole life, I have been painfully shy. Somehow, I managed to have quite a few friends in my really young life–preschool and kindergarten days. In first grade, my family and I moved to another town, and I was forced to start over. Entering a new class halfway through the school year definitely made the shyness that I seemed to be outgrowing stick around but again, I still managed to form some pretty good friendships eventually.

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Sophisticated Lady

January 18, 2009 | By | 1 Reply Continue Reading

QUESTION Dear Irene, First, thank you for a wonderful website. Second, I can’t figure out what I’m doing wrong. I’ve come to the conclusion that perhaps I have a higher need for interaction than most people. I’m turning 40 and when my husband mentioned throwing me a birthday party I realized I have no dear [...]

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Reader Q & A: More than shy—could it be social anxiety?

October 25, 2008 | By | 1 Reply Continue Reading

QUESTION: Hi Irene,   It’s almost funny that I found your site and am now writing to you—as I don’t have ANY female friends. I can’t keep a friend to save my life. If I hit it off with someone, I end up sabotaging the friendship. I say "yes’ to plans and then start panicking [...]

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Rx for making friends: One small step at a time

September 27, 2007 | By | 1 Reply Continue Reading

Anyone who is shy knows how difficult it can be to enter a room, a cocktail party, a classroom, or any other new situation and come face-to-face with a room full of strangers. I recently experienced this discomfort when I signed up for a Scrabble course at my local library. I immensely enjoy playing the [...]

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