Time permitting, I try to answer as many questions/dilemmas as I can that offer teachable lessons for others, and that don’t repeat the themes of previous posts. So your questions and my responses can help others, they may be posted on The Friendship Blog, The Huffington Post, and Psychology Today, and/or other print or online venues.
If I am able to answer your letter, I will send you an email to let you know that it has been posted. I will not use your real name in a post. Also note that I cannot answer any questions privately by email.
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Of course, you can also get additional advice and inspiration from my book, Best Friends Forever: Surviving a Breakup with Your Best Friend, or from reading other posts on the blog. (Use the search functions to help).
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