When a friend won’t talk and cuts off conversation, there isn’t much you can do but wait it out.
My best friend hasn’t spoken to me for two days now, ever since I got back from my family vacation. I have been freaking out and texting her and calling her, and I’m one panic attack away from showing up at her doorstep.
My other best friend who is part of our trio has talked to her about this and she says that she isn’t mad at me, but there is something going on. She won’t answer me directly, but is telling the other best friend that there is nothing against me.
Also, she sent a text on the Friday night I got back asking to call me, which didn’t deliver to me until yesterday night. I then told her that the text didn’t deliver to me until that time, and she still hasn’t answered. What should I do?
Sit tight. If you are used to speaking to your best friend all the time, something is definitely up if she won’t respond to your texts. But you have done all you can do and now the ball is in her court.
Do not show up on her doorstep. Give her a week or so and see if she comes around. Something must be going on but it doesn’t necessarily have to do with you.
In the meantime, try to keep your mind off this by spending time with your family and other friends. I suspect that she will get in touch with you by the time you read this blog post and you’ll have some explanation.
Category: KEEPING FRIENDS